How does one succeed in life?
Last Updated: 20.06.2025 11:28
First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.
Do not set goals—set systems.
PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.
If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.
Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.
Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.
What should a young woman do to control sagging breasts?
Does not procrastinate.
The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.
What I need from you?
Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.
Ask yourself:
Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.
What is the difference between anxiety and depressive neurosis?
Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.
Saving $10,000 is a goal.
That's it for today.
What should every American know before traveling to the UK?
How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?
Making more friends is a goal.
Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.
Why are white women so overly emotional?
Living to your full potential is a goal.
Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.
Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.
How will the article end in Part III of Gleissner's hit piece?
Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).
In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.
Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.
Is anyone else losing complete respect for the US at this point?
An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):
Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.
Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.
I'm straight, so why do I love watching guys cum?
Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.
Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.
Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.
Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).
Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.
Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.
Were you ever in love with your teacher?
The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.
Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.
Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.
Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.
Hangs out with loser friends.
Opens a business and makes WiFi money.
Losing 20kg is a goal.
Big dreamer but only in his mind.
However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:
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How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?
Procrastinates a lot.
I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?
Avoids sugar and is very fit.
“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.
Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.